I hear so much talk about how women are too independent, and
how men want a woman who yes is independent, but soft. I’m hearing society has made women hard, and
therefore men don’t want a woman that is hard and doesn’t need a man in this
day and age.
Well answer me this?
What has society taught men in this day and age about women? I think men
don’t know what the fuck they want! If
you’re too independent he fears she will be dominant, and he cant control the household.
He can’t have that, BUT yet he doesn’t want a woman who is dependent either. WHAT THE FUCK do you want? If you are dependent, he thinks you are lazy
and uneducated, and you only want his money.
You want us to have a career, clean the house, take care of
the kids, be educated, pretty, and fit, BUT you want us to submit to your needs
upon demand. You DON’T want us to be
unemployed, home bodies, uneducated, fat or unattractive because then you think
we’re useless. What THE FUCK do you want?
We live in the 21st century. Women today will not be the women of the 60’s
70’s or even 80’s…and guess what? As we
continue to move into different decades and millenniums, it’s only going to
magnify?
I recently read an article that stated “If a woman is too
smart, a man sees you as either boring or a threat if he is not on your level”. If you make more money than he does, or have
a higher credit score, or you have a Masters and he only has a Bachelors, he
feels threatened, but WHY????? Why is a
strong, educated woman a threat or shunned?
Why is SHE single?
Women have been taught to take care of themselves by their
elders or women before them. You know
why (or what could partly be a reason why?)?
Because women of yester year who were not educated, who were housewives,
may have been abused both mentally and physically, and for the most part had
nowhere to go, so they had to rely on their husbands for their livelihood. So “those” women taught their daughters, and
those daughters, taught their daughters to be strong, to be smart, to always
have your own, so you won’t have to endure such abuse. To never stay somewhere and be abused just
because you don’t have your shit together.
Wouldn’t a man teach his daughter this same lesson? Wouldn’t a man encourage his daughter to be
the absolute best she can be? To never
have to settle? So again, tell me in
THIS day and age what a man is looking for in a woman?
Where is the balance?
What the FUCK do you want? Men be
verbal, be expressive, be communicative, tell women what men want because what
I hear is so fucking contradictory it’s ridiculous!
